One of the big issues today is temporary relationships. Why is the strength of old relationships not happening today?
Couples in their 60s, 70s, 80s that were in relationships years ago, currently don't stay even 2 years.
This occurs through the system of personal selfishness, linked to the inner concept of being able to make mistakes without anyone having anything to do with it.
Once such things are accepted, then each individual tends to also accept the other's error, because his own condemns him, and how he would demand to have a worthy and correct partner!
But this comes at a cost, if both seek their right to make mistakes, then both make mistakes, and a relationship in which wrong is considered right can never work out. Since the acceptable error of one will not be the acceptable one of the other, or even he will not accept the error he commits, as the right of the other to commit.
Thus, current relationships are doomed not to remain, no matter how hard they try, because one is looking inside for a special partner, someone who is considered a shine, who is different and special. This special system of joining people is what made it so that there was a union of 80 years. This is all linked to a perseverance in helping each other to become a better person.
In fact, the big point that unions are no longer lasting is the lack of responsibility and the search to be better and better. The struggle to be better every day, makes someone else do the same, can seek to unite and become something that brings true happiness.
But these days this is extremely rare, this Valentine's Day, what we can see, is the day of himself, worrying about satisfying his own hormonal needs, nothing more.
